G\u00f6n\u00fcl istiyor ki ya\u015fam\u0131n her a\u015famas\u0131nda evlatlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n sadece ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 konu\u015fal\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne yaz\u0131k ki “akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131” diye adland\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n kendi ya\u015f\u0131tlar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fiddet, i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz hafta Atlas evlad\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da aram\u0131zdan ald\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
“\u00c7ocuk” dedi\u011fimiz katiller,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
“Akl\u0131m yapamad\u0131klar\u0131mda kald\u0131” diyecek kadar c\u00fcretkar a\u00e7\u0131klamalar yapabiliyorsa; toplum olarak “Yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 nerede yapt\u0131k?” diye derin derin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeliyiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Evlerimizde ebeveynler, ya \u00e7ocu\u011funun eline telefon veya tableti verip “Kendi kendine oyna” diyerek onlar\u0131 sevgisiz ve ilgisiz b\u0131rakt\u0131;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
ya da her istedi\u011fini \u00f6n\u00fcne sererek sorumsuz ve \u015f\u0131mar\u0131k nesiller yeti\u015ftirdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Okullarda \u00f6\u011fretmenlerin sevgi ve \u015fefkatle tesis etti\u011fi disiplin anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131, maalesef yok edildi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
E\u011fitilmeden, sadece veli iste\u011fiyle ilkokuldan mezun edilen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n e\u011fitim s\u00fcreci, eksik bir temel \u00fczerine in\u015fa edilmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Netice itibar\u0131yla; merhamet ve vicdan eksikli\u011fi, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 otorite yoklu\u011fu ve kar\u015f\u0131lanmayan duygusal ihtiya\u00e7lar, kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za bireysel, ailevi ve sosyal birer enkaz olarak \u00e7\u0131kmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Topra\u011fa verdi\u011fimiz her bir gencecik fidan, asl\u0131nda kendi ekti\u011fimiz tohumlar\u0131n ac\u0131 meyvesidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu hafta Atlas, ge\u00e7en hafta Ahmet\u2026 \u00d6nlem al\u0131nmazsa yar\u0131n bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7ocuk sahibi olmak kadar, \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmenin de bir “sanat” oldu\u011funun bilincine varmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Evlatlar\u0131m\u0131za d\u00fc\u015fmeyi de\u011fil aya\u011fa kalkmay\u0131; k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc de\u011fil iyili\u011fi; cehaleti de\u011fil e\u011fitimi; suskunlu\u011fu de\u011fil diyalo\u011fu \u00f6\u011fretmeliyiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hukuksuzlu\u011fun de\u011fil, hukukun ve insanl\u0131k vicdan\u0131n\u0131n bir ya\u015fam felsefesi haline gelmesini sa\u011flamal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
E\u011fitim yuvalar\u0131m\u0131z olan okullarda; sosyal ya\u015fam\u0131n, insanl\u0131k de\u011ferlerinin ve insan haklar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemi kavrat\u0131lmal\u0131;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00e7evreye verilen de\u011ferin asl\u0131nda ki\u015finin kendisine verdi\u011fi de\u011fer oldu\u011fu bilinci a\u015f\u0131lanmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hukuki boyutta ise; “\u00e7ocuk mahkemesi” kavram\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6tesinde, daha cayd\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 cezalar\u0131n g\u00fcndeme gelmesi, 18 ya\u015f alt\u0131 su\u00e7a kar\u0131\u015fan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ebeveynlerine y\u00f6nelik a\u011f\u0131r yapt\u0131r\u0131mlar\u0131n uygulanmas\u0131, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015fta su\u00e7 i\u015fleme oranlar\u0131nda ciddi bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fc\u015f sa\u011flayacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Akran \u015fiddeti y\u00fcz\u00fcnden ne gencecik fidanlar toprakta yats\u0131n ne de ailelerin g\u00f6z\u00fc ya\u015fl\u0131 kals\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Evlerimizi ve okullar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, sevgi ikliminin h\u00e2kim oldu\u011fu,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
fiziksel \u015fiddetin,
alay etmenin ve d\u0131\u015flaman\u0131n en \u00f6nemliside sosyal medya arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla ( siber zorbal\u0131k) sadece okul bah\u00e7esinde de\u011fil evlerimize kadar s\u0131zmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7ilmeli .<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yerini g\u00fcven duygusunun ald\u0131\u011f\u0131; farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n zenginlik say\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 yuvalar haline getirmeliyiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Okullarda rehberlik ve psikolojik dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131klar sadece kriz zamanlar\u0131nda de\u011fil aktif olarak daha ciddi takip\u00e7i olmal\u0131 ve e\u011fitim verebilmelidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Unutulmamal\u0131d\u0131r ki; ger\u00e7ek g\u00fc\u00e7 ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 ezmek de\u011fil, haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 durmak ve birinin elinden tutmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sevginin harman oldu\u011fu g\u00fcnlerde, elleri hep tutmak dile\u011fiyle\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sevgiyle kal\u0131n.
G\u00fclendam MET\u0130N Alfa Bas\u0131n \/ Anadolu TV<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
G\u00f6n\u00fcl istiyor ki ya\u015fam\u0131n her a\u015famas\u0131nda evlatlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n sadece ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 konu\u015fal\u0131m. Ne yaz\u0131k ki “akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131” diye adland\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n kendi ya\u015f\u0131tlar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fiddet, i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz hafta Atlas evlad\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da aram\u0131zdan ald\u0131. “\u00c7ocuk” dedi\u011fimiz katiller, “Akl\u0131m yapamad\u0131klar\u0131mda kald\u0131” diyecek kadar c\u00fcretkar a\u00e7\u0131klamalar yapabiliyorsa; toplum olarak “Yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 nerede yapt\u0131k?” diye derin derin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeliyiz. Evlerimizde ebeveynler, ya \u00e7ocu\u011funun […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":461,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[32],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-634","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kose-yazisi"],"yoast_head":"\n